Tapped In With Tom Flies Episode 9: Trust Issues, Toxic Stories & Going Through Phones

On Episode 9 of Tapped In With Tom Flies, the crew dives into one of the internet's biggest relationship debates following the Big Tigger situation and asks: is going through your partner's phone ever justified?

From trust issues and relationship boundaries to wild personal stories, the conversation takes plenty of unexpected turns. We also get into Ray J's viral story, double standards, and the craziest things we've done in relationships.

As always, it's a room full of honest opinions, laughs, and conversations that probably shouldn't happen, but we're glad they did. 

In this episode, we dive into:

• The Big Tigger Debate: Was the viral situation blown out of proportion, and where do we draw the line between protecting your privacy and demanding answers? 
• Going Through Phones: Is checking your partner's phone ever justified? The crew shares personal stories, hot takes, and plenty of questionable decisions. 
• Crazy Relationship Confessions: From pulling up unannounced to following exes and catching people in the act, everyone admits the wildest thing they've done for love. 
• Trust, Red Flags & Double Standards: We unpack relationship boundaries, cheating, jealousy, and why men and women often see the same situations differently. 
• Ray J's Viral Story: An honest conversation about attraction, honesty, and navigating uncomfortable situations in today's dating world. 
• Real Talk on Accountability: The episode closes with a conversation about domestic violence, toxic behavior, and why accountability should apply to everyone.

From hilarious stories to serious conversations, Episode 9 is packed with laughs, debates, and moments that'll have you arguing with the crew from start to finish.

Drop a comment below: Is going through your partner's phone ever justified, or is that an automatic deal breaker? Let us know where you stand.

Episode Chapters

00:00 – Welcome Back & Introducing the Crew
Tom Flies welcomes everyone back, shouts out the previous episode, and introduces the guests for another unfiltered conversation.

02:05 – Mental Health Check & What's New
The crew checks in with each other, talks about life lately, getting money, and setting the tone for the episode.

03:40 – Can Friends Borrow Money?
A conversation about lending money to friends turns into a debate about trust, boundaries, and who's actually getting paid back.

07:05 – The Big Tigger Situation
Breaking down the viral Big Tigger incident and whether the headlines matched what was shown in the video.

08:35 – Is Taking Your Partner's Phone Ever Justified?
The room debates privacy, trust, and whether grabbing someone's phone crosses the line in a relationship.

13:00 – Going Through Phones & Finding Receipts
Everyone shares their experiences snooping through phones, searching messages, and discovering things they probably wish they hadn't.

20:40 – The Craziest Things We've Done for Love
From following partners to surprise pop-ups, the crew admits the lengths they've gone to in relationships.

25:00 – Cheating, Hidden Clues & Relationship Red Flags
Stories about finding suspicious items, catching partners slipping, and the subtle ways people expose themselves.

31:00 – Ray J's Viral Story & Honest Conversations
The panel reacts to Ray J's viral interview and discusses honesty, attraction, and uncomfortable relationship conversations.

37:00 – Embarrassing Stories & Telling Your Friends
How long do you keep an embarrassing relationship story to yourself before the group chat finds out?

40:00 – Men Can Be Victims Too
The conversation shifts to domestic violence, accountability, and why abuse against men deserves to be taken seriously.

46:30 – Toxic Traits We Know We Have
The crew reflects on their own relationship habits, self-awareness, and whether people really change.

52:00 – Final Thoughts & Wrapping Up
One last round of laughs before closing out another episode of Tapped In With Tom Flies.

Transcript

SPEAKER_02 0:00

Welcome to Tapped In With Time Flies. Um I don't know. We kind of got caught in the middle of a conversation we was having, but let's act like it didn't happen. Welcome to Tapped In With Time Flies. I am Time Flies. Welcome me and everybody else in the studio today. Let's Wo Woo Before we start, before we start, I want to shout out uh Manny205 for coming through on the podcast and giving us blessing us with insight and um just intellect and just you know a conversation we needed to have uh no better place than to do it but on my show, of course, because y'all niggas shit suck, so you know it is what it is. Um shout out to him. Make sure y'all watch the episode because when you I mean it's out when y'all see this. So um thank thank him. Um have a full house today with um people that I like, you know, I like talking to. Um the usual people are here, people you've seen on this podcast on multiple occasions. I'm Aleikali. I'm getting I'm getting that correct. We're getting that right.

SPEAKER_05 0:58

I'm Malica Lee.

SPEAKER_02 0:59

Where where is the we gonna clap for everybody?

SPEAKER_05 1:02

My bad. If y'all not gonna clap for the baddest, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_06 1:05

We're gonna clap for everybody.

SPEAKER_02 1:07

Um everybody enjoyed Aya's appearance on the pod a couple weeks ago. So I was like, you know what? Fuck it. We gotta get Aya back on the podcast. So Aya's back.

SPEAKER_03 1:15

Yeah, Aya. I wasn't here when she was here.

SPEAKER_02 1:19

They didn't think I enjoyed it because I was quiet and I was just like making faces.

SPEAKER_05 1:22

But I was like literally just like I think that's good though, because like you know, sometimes you can be potting and you can be making faces, and it's like, don't take my faces for what you think they are, bro.

SPEAKER_03 1:31

Like, yeah, but now it's even now it's even like it's even now. We can have proper gender wars. It's too it's even now.

SPEAKER_05 1:39

Before I knew she was coming, I thought I was gonna get bully. I was like, shit. I kinda solid.

SPEAKER_02 1:45

And of course, and and and bang is back, uh, make some noise for Bang. The bad guy. I really appreciate y'all, y'all, y'all's willingness to work with me. Um now we are eight episodes in on the pie. Um, but just you know, trust me in this journey and being here and um going with hey, if I want to have people on, y'all, y'all, y'all with it. So, you know, I appreciate that.

SPEAKER_03 2:05

Ignorance today is endorsed by cut water.

SPEAKER_02 2:08

We're gonna talk some shit today. That's we that was a clap. Alright. Um, how's everybody feeling? Let's go down the line. I always gotta check on y'all, mental health check. I don't cry, even though I am a cancer, but I don't cry, so I'm gonna check on everybody. See how everybody's feeling.

SPEAKER_05 2:21

I'm feeling good. I'm feeling really excited. I mean I'm super excited for this for this episode because like this is not you gonna alright, alright, boom. Like, alright, no, I'm not even gonna say that. But you know what I'm saying? Like, this is a fun episode. Not that the last one wasn't fun because it was, and learning is important and fundamental, but this is LOL's first. And my cake canceled.

SPEAKER_02 2:46

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 2:46

Wait, what's LOL's first? Like, LOL's first is like, oh, the first part of what we're doing is fun. Like everything else comes after, but like the main ingredient to the cake is fun. You know, then we can add everything else later, but like I'm gonna shut down.

SPEAKER_02 3:01

I'm trying to follow along, but I'm with you. Uh no, don't shut out.

SPEAKER_05 3:06

I'm with you.

SPEAKER_02 3:06

Um, Aya. Talk about Aya. How you how are you feeling? What's going on?

SPEAKER_05 3:10

I'm feeling amazing. I'm too blessed to be stressed. Yes, ma'am. Niggas got me fucked up, but like, I'm too blessed to be stressed. Keep that over there. What you been up to since you've been um since we haven't seen you? Uh living life. Oh, I'm sorry. Wait, what'd I do? No, no, please. It was me.

SPEAKER_02 3:26

The floor is there. Please.

SPEAKER_05 3:28

Nothing. Living life. I tell you. Learning lessons, getting money, getting money, getting money. That's we're gonna get into that. We're gonna get into all of that. Can I hold something? Um can I hold sign?

SPEAKER_03 3:44

So like do how like you got male friends?

SPEAKER_05 3:47

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 3:48

So like how like if you're like, do you look at it any different? Like if your girlfriend be like, let me hold a couple hours get paid. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_05 3:58

I don't have any guy friends that would ask me that.

SPEAKER_03 4:00

But y'all friends though.

SPEAKER_05 4:02

Can they? Yes. Okay, but I gotta know you for real.

SPEAKER_03 4:06

Like, but you just said that your friend.

SPEAKER_05 4:08

Any of my friends can get it, but it's like most of the thorough guy friends that I have, they're not gonna put themselves in that position.

SPEAKER_03 4:14

So, Mike, like, yo, I like, you know, you my dog. Like, you know, I don't even be telling what I'm calling you asking you.

SPEAKER_02 4:20

You like the you feel me?

SPEAKER_03 4:22

You know, I got you. I need the whole uh until I get paid.

SPEAKER_05 4:25

Like, if you my nigga, yeah, you can have it. But is you gonna make in the bed though? No, never. Alright. But nigga, I fuck with.

SPEAKER_03 4:32

No, no, no, this is your friend. This your friends are. This your friend, like y'all strictly friends.

SPEAKER_02 4:38

Friends, not not like fucking messing around with each other.

SPEAKER_05 4:40

Oh, yes, absolutely. Okay, yes, you can have it.

SPEAKER_02 4:44

Niggas can't call me.

SPEAKER_05 4:45

Because I see some shit. Bitches be putting niggas up and never could be made.

SPEAKER_02 4:51

Never can be. More power to you, my boy. More power to you. Uh let's not skip over the other male in the room, obviously. How you feeling, bro? What's going on?

SPEAKER_03 4:59

I'm good. Um still being a uh misogynist. It's psycho.

SPEAKER_02 5:08

You ready to throw that mic? You know I gotta get her.

SPEAKER_03 5:11

You know I gotta get her started.

SPEAKER_02 5:13

You ready to throw that mic?

SPEAKER_03 5:14

Uh I'm chilling though, bro. I'm feeling good, man. Uh, every day above ground is a good day. Okay. You feel me? I'm just here to ruin other people's day by just taking life too serious.

SPEAKER_05 5:25

Every day's a good day for you above ground because of women. I just hope you know that.

SPEAKER_02 5:29

Yeah, because you know you can be like in support of like both sides, right? You know that, right?

SPEAKER_05 5:34

Yeah. Both sides of what? Like the left side of a woman and right side of a woman, or like what's it like what we're doing? I support women's wrongs and rights. That's what I'm saying. I got a shirt that says that.

SPEAKER_03 5:41

She wants so much smoke.

SPEAKER_02 5:43

Yeah, we just not gonna give it to her though. We're gonna be happy and polite. We'll be happy and polite. I'm trying to figure out what I'm gonna do for my birthday, y'all. If y'all don't know my birthday is July 16th, only person y'all probably know with that birthday. So shout out to me.

SPEAKER_05 5:54

What? Y'all talking funny as shit. I know a lot of people on the 17th, to be honest.

SPEAKER_03 6:02

Hold up, when you say it is again? The 16th. Alright, because you said you you a petty nigga about your birthday, so I'm just making sure that I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_02 6:10

I'm not a petty nigga.

SPEAKER_03 6:11

Next thing you know, y'all be asking where bang at because I forgot to tell this nigga.

SPEAKER_02 6:15

I mean, I'm expecting. If I want to keep my job, um I'm still trying to figure it out, but it's been a little bit more difficult. Um, if I look different too, y'all don't pay no mind. Just you know, life happens.

SPEAKER_05 6:29

You had a SUNY last time. That's what she had said.

SPEAKER_02 6:31

Life happens, y'all. And uh, you know, things happen. Okay. Um, but speaking of misogyny, that's a great way to start. Sort of kind of, right? Um, I want to get into our first topic because I want to jump right into it so we can we we was talking uh uh pre-pod, where our best conversations come pre-pod, obviously, because we can't say the shit we say pre-pod on the actual podcast. Um the Patreon.

SPEAKER_05 6:54

What's that? Where they have to pay us five dollars to come hear anything we say uncut and unfiltered. Pay that shit. Pay that shit, pay that shit, pay that shit.

SPEAKER_02 7:05

I want to get into um anybody familiar with Big Tigger and who Big Tigger is? Bang, this don't this don't go for you.

SPEAKER_05 7:11

Tigger. Like one eat a pool. Tigger, wasn't he on 106 and park?

SPEAKER_03 7:16

Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Rap City. Well, Rap City, the basement, not 106 park.

SPEAKER_05 7:21

Okay, okay, okay, yeah. Sound like that. All right. I was a kid. I was a kid.

SPEAKER_02 7:24

I know that's why I said bang only. But I've never heard of this thing in my life.

SPEAKER_05 7:28

Until until he was on B.E.T.

SPEAKER_03 7:31

Big Tigger until this situation.

SPEAKER_05 7:32

Who what was he doing before that, like specifically? He was Big Tigger. He was like a media person, right?

SPEAKER_03 7:38

Host of BET events. He's doing Red Carter.

SPEAKER_05 7:42

Okay, so he was us. Cute.

SPEAKER_02 7:43

Yeah. I mean he was a part of the culture. To a bigger level. Yeah, Big Tigger is a host. Legend in the culture.

SPEAKER_05 7:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 7:48

Legend in the culture.

SPEAKER_03 7:49

Yeah, legendary host.

SPEAKER_02 7:51

Um if you if you live under a rock or if you live in the basement, um Big Tigger recently went viral for um an encounter. And it I feel like it was it was it's my duty to bring this on the pod and have this discussion because I know we're gonna clash a little bit. I want to see what everybody's thoughts is on this. Um, just judging off the video, has everybody here seen the video and seen what we're gonna get into? Yes. Okay. Um cops was called to the to their his home for alleged uh domestic abuse, alleged, so we won't get sued. Uh between him and his wife, his estranged wife. Um but the video told me different, added some different context to the video, to the actual hair.

SPEAKER_05 8:33

I I can relate. Aya, please.

SPEAKER_02 8:37

Please.

SPEAKER_05 8:37

I can relate to snatching a nigga phone and playing victim. For real? Yes. I would close the door, lock it, and move fast. She was crying. I ain't finna cry. I'm finna take it.

SPEAKER_02 8:48

I ain't finna cry. Run.

SPEAKER_05 8:50

Was she really crying?

SPEAKER_02 8:51

Was she really crying?

SPEAKER_05 8:52

She was playing victim, but she knew what she was doing. I don't know what was in the phone though. Like, I didn't understand all that. I want to talk about what was in the phone. Because I feel like it was important. We can speculate classify.

SPEAKER_02 9:04

I want to get everybody's opinion on that scenario of because the headline comes out and it says one way, domestic abuse. I get it, right? Not to not to uh minimize however she feels, whatever she went through. Love women. Um, but again, you get context, and then it's like, hold up, bro. Like, this this was like this was what the abuse was, the alleged abuse was like that's not abuse. You took his phone and you try to get it back.

SPEAKER_05 9:27

That's not abuse.

SPEAKER_02 9:28

I okay, so So we all gonna agree on this topic.

SPEAKER_05 9:30

That's plain that was abuse. I I think they had a scuffle, but I wouldn't consider it like abuse. And it I wouldn't even really consider a scuffle for real. She took that nigga phone you knew what's up. That's robbery. You knew what's up. She's a criminal. I'm going to I want to press charges. Give me my fucking press charges. Call a post. Call a people because I'm finna take those.

SPEAKER_03 9:51

I'm afraid she's taking fungus that don't belong to her. No, that's not why she's on this lead. Why would she want to do that? This is not who I want to do.

SPEAKER_02 9:59

Malika Lee, not MJ. I want to know why you feel like she was wrong.

SPEAKER_05 10:04

I feel like she was wrong because when she had the phone in her hand, I don't think she just snatched it from. I think she probably seen the phone, picked it up. She should have disappeared. You should have waited till that nigga was asleep, lacking. I got one better for me. Made that fucking move. Last time I went through a nigga. Got out of there. No. Nigga left his phone in my car. You supposed to when a police show up.

SPEAKER_02 10:24

Y'all wanna know you ever leave your phone somewhere and then instantly remember and then your heart just dropped? Like you're just gonna do it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:31

But when the police show up, you supposed to say, no, officer, everything's fine. And then we go back to fussing and fighting when they leave. Yeah. So y'all don't know how to put on a show when the men show up. When the men show up, we drink. And sometimes the neighbors call the cops, but I'm not sure. Oh, you're right, you're right, you're right. When the men show up, everything is.

SPEAKER_05 10:54

And if you act like it's me, I'm gonna be like, that's me.

SPEAKER_03 10:57

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Y'all start getting it going off script. Don't go on script. The men can't help neither one of us.

SPEAKER_02 11:04

So it's important that I I want to I get everybody's opinion.

SPEAKER_03 11:06

I'm legal, the man can help me, but.

SPEAKER_02 11:08

It's important I get everybody's opinion on who's right, who's wrong if we get into the fun shit, because the fun shit is better than this politically correct shit we're gonna do. Who do you feel like I want to know your opinion? Who you feel like is was just off of what you know, the the context that we do have, who you feel like was in the right, who was in the wrong.

SPEAKER_05 11:20

The woman.

SPEAKER_02 11:21

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 11:22

She had a reason.

SPEAKER_02 11:22

It's important we get them to say that.

SPEAKER_05 11:24

She had a reason. Women don't do shit unprovoked. I know whatever she did, it was it was a burning fire in her chat. She needed to know.

SPEAKER_02 11:29

Okay. But she was wrong though.

SPEAKER_05 11:31

No. You don't think she was wrong for tickets or she had to get the fucking answers. You know, the only person that knows is that phone.

SPEAKER_02 11:38

So not asking him, like, hey, not having like a conversation. Like a just gonna tell the truth on the phone. He big ticker, why wouldn't he?

SPEAKER_05 11:46

For nice niggas, but most niggas ain't nice. Let me see that phone. Evil.

SPEAKER_03 11:51

Evil. Oh, that's a good one. It's an evil world we live in. Yeah, evil niggas. Same thing. It's an evil world we live in.

SPEAKER_02 11:58

Thing. Who do you feel like right or wrong?

SPEAKER_03 12:01

Bro, she dead ass wrong, but like I said. Let me see your phone. Huh? Yeah. That's what I'm saying. Ain't nothing jumping on this jack. But she wrong, but I get it. You and your emojis, you take the phone cool. When the man show up, play it cool so that we can go back to the city. You're talking about the cops. Yes. Who's calling the cops? Sometimes the neighbors, but the whole thing is once they show up, you gotta go into that mode, like, okay, now it's time to protect the crib.

SPEAKER_05 12:33

Yeah, I'm gonna just be like, it's fine, we could not.

SPEAKER_03 12:35

Nobody needs to be leaving the house. Like, we whatever we gotta do to make them leave and go about their business, we need to do that and then go back to whatever problems we had. But it seemed like y'all can't never just shut that shit off.

SPEAKER_05 12:50

I've never been in that situation where like, damn, we somebody gonna recognize it. A nigga tried to call the cops on me about two days ago.

SPEAKER_02 12:57

Oh, expound, please.

SPEAKER_05 12:59

Call him. Call him.

SPEAKER_02 13:02

Say not one way. That's it. Well, what what what reason was? What was his claim?

SPEAKER_05 13:10

Daddy that crazy outside again. Because I was just crashing out and niggas try to toss me out, but I'm not going nowhere until I get the motherfucking answer.

SPEAKER_02 13:19

Was it his place? A residency? Okay.

SPEAKER_05 13:22

I don't give a fuck.

SPEAKER_03 13:23

How many times did he say just leave?

SPEAKER_05 13:26

A thousand.

SPEAKER_03 13:28

How many times you thought about leaving? How many times you thought about leaving?

SPEAKER_02 13:32

Never thought about leaving, huh?

SPEAKER_05 13:33

I left, but then I came back and said, wait a minute. I left one more thing. I every time you asked you how to leave, say that phone. What's up?

SPEAKER_03 13:42

You wanted that phone. What is it about the phone that just dropped?

SPEAKER_02 13:50

How many times? Okay, how many people here has ever gone through a phone before?

SPEAKER_03 13:53

I went through a phone.

SPEAKER_02 13:54

I just want you to pay attention to the ratio. All right, see the ratio, right?

SPEAKER_05 13:57

So you never went through a phone? Because it's a waste of time going through a girl phone. That shit's gonna be clean. Oh, you more peedy. You more peepy than me.

SPEAKER_03 14:04

I ain't gonna lie. You went through a phone?

unknown 14:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 14:06

But like I'm like the dumb, like the sneaky kind of like I go through your phone in January, and then like when we argue in November, I bring it up.

SPEAKER_01 14:16

I don't have to be a little bit more. I'm not with you. I don't have to be.

SPEAKER_03 14:19

I go through your phone, you'll never know. I had screenshots, evidence, like your whole little folder, like and I just look at your behavior from January.

SPEAKER_02 14:28

Did you search like keywords?

SPEAKER_03 14:30

Yep. Yeah, first, I'm gonna tell you my whole rundown. First, you go through the messages, keywords. Don't tell. Search put search your name. No, you search your name. You search your name first thing, Pussy Dick, I missed you.

SPEAKER_05 14:44

They favorite cousin and auntie.

SPEAKER_03 14:46

Then roll through that. After that, you go to the block list, see what numbers you got. They got blocked. You know, the French numbers is always at the top.

SPEAKER_05 14:54

In every name, that's a nigga, because it might be a bitch. You know what? Yeah, your food's dead. Then after that, why you got two dead? Why you got two rods? Why you telling them you? That's not your fucking dad.

SPEAKER_03 15:08

And then after that, if you make it through all of that, then we we Gucci.

SPEAKER_05 15:12

I don't have them kind of patience to wait that long though. The longest I waited was one time a nigga phone, screen got cracked, so we went to the store to get it fixed, and then they was like, put your code in. Do, do, do, do, do. I said, You knew it. Then I waited for like two months, and he had got a new phone, and the old phone was in the glove compartment. I peeped it, waited. Then when he wasn't paying attention, I took it, he didn't know it was going.

SPEAKER_01 15:34

Was he good money?

SPEAKER_05 15:35

Got on Wi-Fi, opened it. Nigga was texting a bitch on Wi-Fi in the same crib as me. I just was watching the conversation, like, okay.

SPEAKER_02 15:43

Was it like, was it like, um uh what's the word I'm looking for? Help me out here, people. I don't know. Um, did you find anything that was like incriminating?

SPEAKER_05 15:54

I screenshotted everything.

SPEAKER_02 15:55

Was there anything incriminating in there?

SPEAKER_05 15:56

Yes. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 15:57

Screenshotted everything with my phone. You don't feel like you was wrong for doing that?

SPEAKER_05 16:00

No, I don't think you was wrong.

SPEAKER_02 16:01

Okay. Just I just gotta ask.

SPEAKER_05 16:02

Sometimes you gotta do research, like it's field research. You know, some serious shit. Women have an intuition. You don't really have to know anything, and you'll feel like I I know. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 16:12

Yeah, see, I had a bitch break up with me because she couldn't get in my phone. Like she tried everything she could never get in, and she just was like it was some hot shit in there though. I don't know what was in there. I just know that you can't prove you can't prove what you can't prove. That's all I'm gonna say.

SPEAKER_05 16:28

And that's a fucking problem because that's back to the ticket shit. If I try to go get your phone and you act like that.

SPEAKER_02 16:36

You know what? My thing is my thing is act like what? I'm asking you for the phone. What do you mean? No, no, no, no, no, his life. It was something in there. But if I say, hey, MJ, can you get my phone back? And you say, No.

SPEAKER_05 16:46

No, he was my phone back. He was fighting for his life for the phone. No, he wasn't, bro. Every girl does that to me. He was fighting for his life.

SPEAKER_03 16:54

And then they drop down to the ground. It's right. When you go to grab the phone, they drop all their weight down to the ground. So it looked like you slamming a bitch.

SPEAKER_05 17:03

If I do that, if I grab a nigga's phone and he chased me, I'm bitch is something in his phone. And the way he was making it, though. I feel like it was niggas in their phone. It's money in their phone. It was niggas in their phone. Like, let's say it was some bitches who like, yeah, like, give me the fucking phone, like he was going crazy. Finding out a nigga is talking to other bitches is like, all right, like, you know, that's fucked up, but y'all probably gonna get past that, possibly, maybe.

SPEAKER_03 17:28

Maybe he clipped her credit card and she was shooting.

SPEAKER_05 17:30

If a nigga acts wild, there's level one wild and there's level wow. Level one wild. Wait, what's level two? Wow. You getting too aggressive, you getting real physical.

SPEAKER_03 17:39

Like he ain't getting physical though.

SPEAKER_05 17:41

Like, you ever hear somebody like yeah, I took his phone, he smack me? Oh, he's fucking niggas.

SPEAKER_03 17:45

Damn.

SPEAKER_05 17:46

You think so? Yes. Or maybe they're not afraid to lose you. So let me know. No, no, he's fucking.

SPEAKER_03 17:51

So you're saying like the level of connection determines like the level of like disgraceful shit you say is in there.

SPEAKER_00 17:58

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 17:59

So like, all right, you grab the phone, you take the phone, I rush to you a little bit, it might be some bitches in there. I take the phone, but I'm telling you, you say this nigga's I take the phone, I threaten to kill you if you're gonna be.

SPEAKER_05 18:13

You're doing the bad joke. You're getting fucked.

SPEAKER_03 18:18

That's a bad joke.

SPEAKER_05 18:19

You're you're you're you're not doing the bending, you're getting bent. That's you're getting bent. I never thought about it like that. I'm actually afraid now.

SPEAKER_02 18:29

Can I pose a question to the ladies? Yeah. Have y'all ever had somebody take your phone and like go the opposite way? And was like, okay. How what was your reaction?

SPEAKER_05 18:40

Like when they took my phone, like, but the thing is, like, I really don't be doing shit, but it's certain things like females would say to their friend. If out of niggas take everything and be like, What the fuck is this? I had a nigga throw my whole phone and crack it over a nigga that wasn't I wasn't messing with for nothing.

SPEAKER_02 18:56

You complimenting him or something?

SPEAKER_05 18:57

All right, so I got this thing right on fuck with light-skinned niggas. And I'm my friend do. And I was like, I sent the picture. I was like, this is like a prissy nigga, you would like to do it. But you literally your type. Huh? Like you was like, this is your type? Yeah, so I'm on a phone with her, and I sent it while we on the phone. But it was no context. No context, just a picture. So he just assumed like. But I feel like a woman, we want to believe in our relationship. So we're not gonna just we'll see and be like, what the fuck is that? But if you tell me a story that makes sense, I might, I might rock with you. I don't know if I'm gonna buy it. Even if it makes sense, I'm probably not gonna buy it. You better than me, I'm probably dumb.

SPEAKER_02 19:28

I like the honesty.

SPEAKER_05 19:29

Um like, yeah, one plus one equals two. And I'm like, no, bitch, you lying. That shit eight, and I'm gonna fuck you up. I want it to be four, and I was like, you just want to get violent.

SPEAKER_02 19:37

I like been like that since Juneteenth.

SPEAKER_03 19:40

I wanna know. Yeah, like you want your reparations.

SPEAKER_05 19:43

No, it's been longer than that. It's been longer than that.

SPEAKER_03 19:47

December.

SPEAKER_02 19:48

Okay. One day we're gonna unpack your shit. We're talking about me not crying. We're gonna we're gonna get unpacked this shit.

SPEAKER_03 19:53

Somebody check on her boyfriend. That nigga probably chained up in the basement somewhere. How you know it's in my basement?

SPEAKER_02 20:01

I checked on him yesterday. He he he he good money for now.

SPEAKER_05 20:03

Yeah, he sounded like he was good, right?

SPEAKER_02 20:07

I check in on him for real.

SPEAKER_03 20:08

He said, Tell Tom you go to him. I'm good, I'm good.

SPEAKER_02 20:12

Um, so we all okay, so we do feel like it was it was something in the phone though, right?

SPEAKER_05 20:17

Absolutely niggas dicks. I don't know, but I'm also always like, What if it's like her fucking sister or something?

SPEAKER_03 20:23

Like there's like if she's trying to get to that paper. Is that worse? What if he clipped her credit card and she trying to say, you're not gonna kick me out and leave me with nothing? Um you're gonna give me something and she tried to get it. She gotta kill.

SPEAKER_05 20:35

That's not how you feel like nothing. Like, you wait till we wait till that nigga gone. Okay, and then you leave with something. You ain't gotta do all that.

SPEAKER_02 20:42

Let me ask y'all a question. What's the cra what's like since we hear on relationships and domestics and things of that sort? What's the craziest thing you you say you ever did in like I guess in a relationship? Everybody's in a fake detail.

SPEAKER_03 21:02

I'll start.

SPEAKER_02 21:02

I'll start so I give you all time to talk about it. I don't know if I can even to me, which I feel like is some of the like, this ain't like you, bro. Um I follow my girl at the time. Like, she used to work at the movie theater.

SPEAKER_04 21:14

You followed her.

SPEAKER_02 21:15

So like I've been there a million times, so they kind of know like her work, like hoarders know my face. And then one day she did some shit, and I thought she had gone to the movies with somebody else. So I had like popped up there, but I knew they weren't gonna let me in, like, because I didn't I wasn't with her. So I had like fake called her on my phone and then screenshotted it, and then hung it up, and then I walked up to the front, and I was on the phone with her so they could let me in. And I got in, I found what movie she was in, and I sat behind like three rows back.

SPEAKER_05 21:39

How you find out what movie she was in?

SPEAKER_02 21:41

I just got my sources.

SPEAKER_05 21:42

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_02 21:42

And then um I sat behind three rows back to see, and I see she was with somebody though. She was with somebody. And I was like, I sat there the whole time in the movie, it was a good movie.

SPEAKER_03 21:51

It was a good movie. But applying your revenge the whole time.

SPEAKER_02 21:58

Whole time that was her cousin, it was like her. It was her girl cousin. Oh shit. It was her girl cousin. So I was like, I never, never have ever told that to nobody. So she don't even know that even happened. But that was like to me, that's like, damn, bro, this ain't even. We did all that for no reason for real reason.

SPEAKER_05 22:10

You gotta know though. You gotta know.

SPEAKER_03 22:12

I guess I did a joke like that too. I was arguing with a chick I was fucking with at the time. So like the way my balcony was set up, like you might shit was all glass, so you could see like outside. So she she rolled past, and I seen that it was a nigga with the seat laid all the way back. So I couldn't see who the nigga was. So I hauled ass downstairs in my garage, jumped in my car, followed it. So at the time I was living when my apartment was that was on 19th when Colliho, bro, I followed her all the way to Bro and Diamond. As soon as she made the car, the right on Diamond, I pulled and blocked the car off and jumped out on some Rambo shit. You put it between the lines of what you think that is. And it was her little brother in the car. And she was like doing that shit.

SPEAKER_02 23:01

Well, I just say sometimes you gotta be sure.

SPEAKER_03 23:03

But yeah. But like think about I would have loved them even more after that.

SPEAKER_05 23:07

Elodie had prevented. She probably was like, damn, this thing crazy shit. I don't even think I'm gonna do nothing crazy no more. Like, I think it's made me smart.

SPEAKER_03 23:14

Yeah, but it's like when you after you do all of that and be wrong. Like, it's cool when you right, but when you be wrong, like you just question your whole existence. I don't give a fuck about that.

SPEAKER_05 23:27

I don't get embarrassed if I get like, not as that's how we're gonna be right though. They be wrong. But later. We're never right. We're never wrong.

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SPEAKER_05 24:20

I don't need a fancy. Have you ever really done nothing crazy for like of course?

SPEAKER_03 24:24

Like when we talk about like crazy, like I don't do crazy shit. Like look at your shirt.

SPEAKER_05 24:36

I ate you up. Damn no, he did eat that. I'm not gonna lie. You ate that shebang. Damn.

SPEAKER_02 24:42

So so nope, do we don't have no no stories to tell. They gonna know we talk about it.

SPEAKER_05 24:45

Like, are we talking about like lick bag or are we talking about like to somebody was there?

SPEAKER_02 24:48

Whatever you, whatever you, whatever you can determine, whatever you feel like is the craziest thing I ever did was like I found out my ex at the time was cheating.

SPEAKER_05 24:57

And this wasn't the first time, but I was like, that's important. I was No, bitch, hold up. No. So boom. We chilling, we having a good night, like we about to watch movies and chill, this and the third. And he had just watched clothes, he brought his clothes upstairs. So, you know, I've been over there like, you know, four, five, seven, eight, ten, eleven, thousand months. You know, I'm chilling. He like, oh, here's your clothes. I folded them up. I see this, I say, okay, these my these my little yoga pants, okay, cool. I see a little tank top, mind you, I was little back then. A little small, extra small, okay, cool. I pull up a big ass, fat ass bralette. I say, yo, this is not my shirt. He said, Yes, it is your shirt. How you gonna how you gonna tell me this my shirt? How you gonna look at me in my face? I'm a size two legitimately in American Eagle jeans, like no stretch.

SPEAKER_03 25:49

No shirt.

SPEAKER_05 25:50

This is a extra fucking large. That's sloppy. Bro, how you just got bitches in here? You supposed to check around before I come through.

SPEAKER_03 25:58

Like everything goes in the trash once you.

SPEAKER_02 26:00

Women do shit like that though. Women do shit like that. Like my cousin one time, my cousin one time had a girl like put her slides in like his closet.

SPEAKER_03 26:07

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05 26:08

Oh, I do that shit, leave shit in drawers, make sure the shit looked the same.

SPEAKER_02 26:11

So then women go in there and think, oh, I'm gonna grab a t-shirt and then boom, who shit is this?

SPEAKER_03 26:15

You can leave whatever that shit could be.

SPEAKER_05 26:17

But then it's like it's bitches out here okay with that shit, so it don't even matter. Like, this bitch is totally okay with it. I'm gonna go out. I see, I see I go in a nigga car and I see pads, like, no. That's thorough, though. See, no, I need shit like that.

SPEAKER_03 26:30

I ain't had no pads, that's too far, but like I got like makeup wipes, shit like that.

SPEAKER_05 26:36

Why you got makeup wipes?

SPEAKER_03 26:38

What you mean? Because y'all act like y'all don't y'all go to sleep at your own crib with makeup on. Like, wipe that shit off. You're not about to fuck up my sheets.

SPEAKER_05 26:46

Feel that. You a Virgo?

SPEAKER_03 26:48

I'm an Aries.

SPEAKER_05 26:49

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 26:50

Behave Virgos?

SPEAKER_05 26:51

A little bit.

SPEAKER_02 26:52

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 26:53

Virgilmen are like your clean, neat, precise people.

SPEAKER_03 26:56

Yeah, I'm OCD, but like wipe that shit off. So I'ma have like the little shit. Like, I ain't gonna have no pants though. Like, that's it. I got a friend that got a bag.

SPEAKER_05 27:03

He got like a box of women's clothes. His name's Gerrell. His name called me Jarell. This nigga got a bag, like a box.

SPEAKER_03 27:10

And he just told you, just gave up his whole drive.

SPEAKER_05 27:13

You know, that's cool. Everything around they got a big thing. You'll be surprised. People love that shit about him. Um, it's very so I'm like, damn, y'all love my whole ass homeboy. But no, he got like a So you're talking about your thing. No, I got not a lot of ass homeboy. Okay, he got like a bag, like a box full of like clothes, like small, medium, I don't think large, because I think he got a type. Lost the film. Like, and they all know they knew clothes in the package. Like, he like, yeah, in case, like, you know, they want to stay over, you got something good to wear the next day. I'm gonna feel like kind of way the fact that you got this.

SPEAKER_03 27:45

Yeah, see, no, I'm gonna have like a fresh white tea.

SPEAKER_02 27:48

How many women are you running through here? This is a this is a business.

SPEAKER_03 27:52

He's super bachelor status. Yeah, because that's like I'm gonna have like a fresh white tee, some fresh socks, maybe even a fresh pair of boxes for you to like, you know how y'all girls are, like, but like having like girl shit already for you to just like pop the tag on.

SPEAKER_05 28:09

Like, Walmart ready, like he's so pee because like he got like a pool and shit. It's like a pool with his spot and all that.

SPEAKER_03 28:15

So it's like nail, like he making sure bitches is always ready.

SPEAKER_02 28:18

You ain't got no choice.

SPEAKER_03 28:21

No choice but to pull up and give me a shit.

SPEAKER_05 28:24

Jarrell, he go about call me Jarrell, he makes music and shit. I ain't fucking with no Jarrell's cooler shit. No, when Jarel, when Jarrell got a situation, he real well behaved. But when he don't got a situation, like he's a ho.

SPEAKER_02 28:34

Yeah, Jarrell's such like an 80s name. I'm sorry. Like names like Jarrell, Bernard. That sounds like a nigga.

SPEAKER_03 28:41

I ain't gonna lie, Jarrell sounds like a nigga he got a lot of drama with bitches down. That sounds like a nigga got a big thing. Yo, they love Jarrell, bro. They be loving him. You fuck with Jarel, I fuck with Jarrell too. I'm Jarel's baby mama.

SPEAKER_05 28:52

Like Gerard be like that sound like along. Like he don't argue, he don't yell. Like, I like that. I want an honest nigga.

SPEAKER_03 28:58

He'll argue, he'll yeah.

SPEAKER_05 29:00

Like, none of that.

SPEAKER_03 29:01

Like, oh, so he real.

SPEAKER_05 29:02

I might fuck with Jarrell then, maybe because at least he's telling the truth. He's gonna keep it a bit. He gonna keep it a be.

SPEAKER_03 29:09

He's gonna keep it a be.

SPEAKER_05 29:10

And he gonna stop his life. He's gonna stop all the horse shit if he like you. I've seen it. I'm like, damn, bro. Just pause school.

SPEAKER_02 29:15

A good homie.

SPEAKER_05 29:16

I like that.

SPEAKER_02 29:16

We're good homie. There's that. Um, so shout out to Big Tigger. Uh, prayers and thoughts to everybody involved. Not shout the big tigger, but yeah, like what? Thoughts and prayers to everybody involved. Shout out to him and his wife and whoever's seen. But those said prayers to him to him too, though.

SPEAKER_05 29:33

It's stressful because you got dicks in your phone. Allegedly.

SPEAKER_03 29:36

We don't know if he has to allegedly.

SPEAKER_05 29:38

If we get like a real big thing that say alleged as soon as I say dicks in the phone, because I don't want to see this shit.

SPEAKER_02 29:44

Well, why have anyone my thing is y'all have never probably experienced some shit like that? So why would why is that like the experience no nick dicks in no nigga phone?

SPEAKER_05 29:51

You ain't never like I haven't, and I hope I never because like crying about another bitch, I'm probably gonna come back, but crying about a nigga, I'm not coming back. So I'm gonna went through it. I went through a nigga phone. And he had an asshole. I seen a and you wasn't sure it was gender. No, it was definitely, it was a it was a girl. It was definitely a girl. But niggas tried to tell me, like, oh no, it was a video and it was edited line, like, nah, nigga, that's an asshole. And I was so mad about that. I was so mad about going through that fucking phone. In my mind's eye, I seen that asshole for like a month straight. And every time I would look at him, I'd be like, you fucking booty hole. You nigga, you you asshole picture taking ass nigga. Like, I just I couldn't let it go. And I'm like, it's a picture of this bitch asshole.

SPEAKER_02 30:39

You just, I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 30:40

That's when you know you're dealing with a slut when she's sending you asshole pics. You know you're gonna be like, I ain't gonna lie, that's when you're gonna be a little bit more. I ain't gonna lie, that's when you know what you're doing. When he's trying to be like, she's sending asshole picks.

SPEAKER_05 30:54

Spread them cheeks.

SPEAKER_03 30:55

I don't even want to come on, yo. Next next time.

SPEAKER_02 30:57

She said the cut. It's like traumatized.

SPEAKER_05 30:59

A booty hole is a fest. Let's move on.

SPEAKER_02 31:01

Actually, we can we can go from get domestic. We can go from uh asshole to um the other um uh what's the body body part, extremity, whatever the word is.

SPEAKER_05 31:13

The vagina?

SPEAKER_02 31:14

Yes, talk about rejection.

SPEAKER_05 31:15

You didn't even know what a vagina was?

SPEAKER_02 31:16

I didn't want to say it, but oh, what's wrong with it?

SPEAKER_05 31:18

My bad. That's a good word. We should be using proper terminology for genitals.

SPEAKER_02 31:21

Uh you say coochie every side every five seconds.

SPEAKER_05 31:24

I don't say coochie. I say coochie. Coochie, coochie, coochie, coochie. Coochie, coochie. I know that's you. Like when I think of the word coochie, I think of like it's spelled out in cursive with like fuzzy writing.

SPEAKER_02 31:36

I don't know if we can say these things on YouTube, but it is.

SPEAKER_05 31:42

With what?

SPEAKER_03 31:43

Yeah, the fake coochie.

SPEAKER_05 31:45

Yeah, Ray J was having sexual relations with a trans woman, politically correct. We love uh the LGBTQIA plus and men and women and women who have transitioned and men who have transitioned. We love all of them before this conversation goes further because we don't want like fuck again, cancel. We just we care about the community.

SPEAKER_02 32:06

We can't cancel, we politically correct, and we're going to speak from our honest opinion. I have no problem with nobody from what you just said.

SPEAKER_05 32:11

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 32:13

It's funny. I want to talk, it's funny. I want to talk about it. So if you live under again, under a rock, or just don't follow whatever fuck Ray J got going on. Ray J explained the experience he had, and this is the part where the clip is gonna cut to like the video of him explaining what happened with the trans woman. Um, when he was dealing with one, bang. Actually, you can explain it better than I can.

SPEAKER_03 32:30

I probably can't. I probably can't. Give it a go. But yeah, he just was explaining like a wild night where he just was like, you know, he was having a little fun with her, and he just was like, the tools in the toolkit just wasn't feeling like too familiar, and he just was like something was a little off.

SPEAKER_05 32:53

Well, how do you think?

SPEAKER_03 32:55

I mean, like they were like there are signs. I mean, there is signs, but like intoxication. I'm not making no excuses for him, but you don't know. That Adam's apple. Yeah, for sure. But uh, we don't know. A few things could have played into it, he could have been intoxicated, who knows? I just want to get canceled. But he said too familiar, and he said he kind of questioned it, so he didn't go all the way, but he did make it like to like second base. Let me stop you there.

SPEAKER_02 33:24

Let me stop you there, because it's important that we note.

SPEAKER_05 33:26

Sorry.

SPEAKER_02 33:27

It's important we note what he just said. He said he didn't go all the way.

SPEAKER_05 33:30

Yeah, he didn't go all the way. Well, he said he didn't go all the way. So they didn't all the way. They did not have to do it. You think he went all the way?

SPEAKER_02 33:36

He for sure went all the way.

SPEAKER_03 33:37

Why do you think so?

SPEAKER_02 33:38

Important to know, allegedly, but he for sure went all the way.

SPEAKER_03 33:40

Yeah, but he said he only went to second base. He said he sucked a little titties and played with a little cat.

SPEAKER_05 33:45

Okay, or in order to tell the story can or like possum, whatever you want to do.

SPEAKER_02 33:50

So once you once you get the as men, it's a few men in the in the room, all right. I don't want to bring up no old experiences, but we all been there where you've done that's like when you first start off doing stuff like that, right? Yeah. You get to the point where you feel like, all right, this don't really feel natural or whatever the case may be, right? You gonna suck some titties after you feel like this ain't natural, but fuck it, like I'm here, right?

SPEAKER_05 34:11

Maybe the titty sucking came first.

SPEAKER_02 34:13

No, he's he he said that it was after the fact.

SPEAKER_05 34:17

Maybe you had to like double down and be sure.

SPEAKER_03 34:20

I think uh it was like one of those things where he just was like, at that point he had did so much.

SPEAKER_02 34:26

Yeah, like we here, exactly.

SPEAKER_03 34:27

So the only thing I feel like that's why I say I feel like he's saying that he didn't go all the way. So I feel like the worst thing he could have did was to go all the way. But and then regretting it, but it's not really the worst thing he could do. He's saying he's saying he didn't, so it's like I feel like at that point he was like, fuck it, but I'm not gonna go all the way just in case. And I'm not gonna do that. I feel like he played his safe.

SPEAKER_05 34:48

I feel like if he did, he would never tell that.

SPEAKER_02 34:50

So I mean, he's telling us this, so and that's and telling me that is enough to let me know.

SPEAKER_03 34:57

Batman couldn't get this information out of me.

SPEAKER_05 34:59

Because he, wow, he does be saying shit, but it's like, let me not go too far and I can't come back. That's already too far.

SPEAKER_03 35:05

Yeah, I'm about to say that's what's it. That's as far as it goes. That's like you suck the titties. Like, what's like you told niggas the worst part?

SPEAKER_05 35:13

But you know what? We also for sure don't know his sexuality. He's never told us. No, we don't.

SPEAKER_03 35:19

But he just was like his homie came later on, like a couple weeks later, like, yo, you know, oh, folks you was kicking it with was like, you know, you know, one of them people.

SPEAKER_05 35:31

A trans woman. I mean, I don't got nothing against them.

SPEAKER_03 35:35

It's like I like my whole thing is like you just never know, like, if you're not like super like familiar with the terminology, like one bad, you see what I'm saying, it could go left. So I just don't never want to.

SPEAKER_05 35:47

What you mean it can go left?

SPEAKER_03 35:48

Because like you could just never ever have anything going good for your life if you don't get the terminology correct. I just want to defend their identity terminology. Um yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_05 36:03

Um y'all are not media trained.

SPEAKER_01 36:06

I haven't said nothing.

SPEAKER_05 36:07

I'm just I'm just black and uncomfortable.

SPEAKER_03 36:09

Yeah, like it's just snatch pocketbook, so don't mind me.

SPEAKER_05 36:12

What that got to do with what we talk about?

SPEAKER_03 36:14

I'm saying I'm not media trained. Why the fuck was Okay?

SPEAKER_02 36:19

That's why everybody I'm gonna put a disclaimer at the beginning of the case.

SPEAKER_05 36:24

Why you ain't start snatching wallets?

SPEAKER_03 36:26

They too hard to get.

SPEAKER_05 36:27

They inside the pocketbook. No, I never really said give me the purse.

SPEAKER_03 36:31

Nah, I never really snatched the pocketbook.

SPEAKER_05 36:33

It's all right. We ain't gonna judge.

SPEAKER_02 36:35

Would y'all judge? Can I ask you a question?

SPEAKER_05 36:39

Will we judge?

SPEAKER_02 36:40

This is gonna be the I'm sorry, y'all. If we can cancel this episode, it is what it is.

SPEAKER_05 36:43

Who's we?

SPEAKER_02 36:44

All of us, because we all appear to be.

SPEAKER_05 36:45

I mean, I'm playing it careful, I know what to say. Fuck.

SPEAKER_02 36:47

And if Ray J if Ray J or whoever you're dealing with expressed that to you, like yo, one time I was with this girl and she ended up being a trans woman and you know, I did all that.

SPEAKER_05 36:59

Like, how would we feel about Ray J?

SPEAKER_02 37:01

Yeah, I don't know. If it's somebody you're dealing with.

SPEAKER_05 37:03

And they told Okay, so if you was dating somebody and they were like, hey, you don't really like you, I'm just letting you know that at one point I had sexual relations with a trans woman.

SPEAKER_02 37:13

Hey, like sexual relationships.

SPEAKER_05 37:15

I'm not appreciating women honest. I'm gonna let you talk. I'm gonna be honest, I probably would not uh deal with them because like I really it's not even like nothing wrong with that. I just feel like you're not gonna ever want me. I don't I don't want to feel like I'm unwanted. But she got the scene no, no, I think she doesn't know how to suck dick how she knows how to do it better than me. Because she has one. She had one. Like I can't allegedly, because you never know, he might be he might have been with a trans woman who went through a full transition. So what if it was a trans woman that you literally could not tell and it's like damn, it's like oh, this is actually bad. You find out she was a trans woman. I don't know, man. I have no idea. And then moment I'm gonna be accepting of my friend, my like for real. I'd be like, tell me, can you tell me I'm not gonna treat you weird because I feel like that's a good thing. No, then you're understanding you're you're dating. Yeah, still, like you my friend though, if I'm dating you. That's cute. So I'm not gonna make you feel bad or uncomfortable or like wanna hurt yourself or some shit like that.

SPEAKER_02 38:19

Are you telling me are you telling your best friend after the fact?

SPEAKER_05 38:22

Absolutely. Wait, no, probably not. I'm gonna just hold on to it for a little bit now too.

SPEAKER_03 38:27

So, like, what level of embarrassment make the group chat immediately, and what level of embarrassment? Because certain things you're not going to have. That's not embarrassing. Like simmer, like settling a little bit.

SPEAKER_05 38:38

I'm not really embarrassed to tell my friends nothing.

SPEAKER_03 38:40

Your embarrassment at 10, how quick does it make the group chat?

SPEAKER_05 38:45

I'm beating this nigga right now. Come get me. I'm not gonna lie, if it's something extremely embarrassing, they're not finding out until I get my lick back. Like, I really gotta get my lick back.

SPEAKER_03 38:57

You gotta be able to finish the story with like how you got your lick back before you tell him.

SPEAKER_05 39:02

It's like, yeah, I'll fuck him up, but let me tell you what happened. My friends be like, go home, please leave. I'll be like, I will in a minute. In a minute, yes. I said, I'm gonna disappoint you. I'm sorry. I'm gonna be here for a minute.

SPEAKER_03 39:16

I'm gonna be here for a minute.

SPEAKER_01 39:18

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 39:18

There's been times where like literally text my cousins, I'm about to fuck him up. And then she'll call me 20 minutes later. Did you do it? All right. Why would we allegedly say yeah?

SPEAKER_02 39:27

There we go.

SPEAKER_05 39:28

Allegedly. Allegedly.

SPEAKER_02 39:34

We do not support domestic violence. We don't support domestic violence. I show listen, this is all satire, jokes for fun, hey, comedy, entertainment, however you want to put it. We, you know, I'm just gonna be able to do that.

SPEAKER_05 39:46

Make a donate to a shelter for not even me right now talking. For women who have been through domestic, like a domestic violence shelter, because we did talk about like being on people a lot today. We should definitely like at some point donate.

SPEAKER_03 39:57

What about the men?

unknown 39:58

Fuck the next question.

SPEAKER_05 40:01

I love this question.

SPEAKER_03 40:02

I think because you like to beat men.

SPEAKER_05 40:05

No, I don't, I like to beat man because he played. Um I think it's important for us to talk about men being abused because men, men are tip are very frequently abused in relationships. By women like M and J.

SPEAKER_00 40:19

By women, not like this is cool abuse.

SPEAKER_05 40:23

No, you had to think about it.

SPEAKER_03 40:24

Like that.

SPEAKER_05 40:25

The first man I ever seen be a victim of like a woman's abuse, love you, dad, was my dad. My mom used to fuck him up, yo. So it's like seeing that, it made me grow up and think, like, I'm not gonna put my hands on a man. Like, I'm really not, and that's fucked up, and men have rights.

SPEAKER_02 40:40

That would be a good one. But then you be putting your hands up.

SPEAKER_05 40:42

I don't believe in that. You'd be like, fuck that shit. You deserved it.

SPEAKER_02 40:45

One too many. I don't know.

SPEAKER_05 40:48

Cause you will get fucked up putting your hands on the wrong man. So I'm gonna do that.

SPEAKER_03 40:51

I do the like the childish shit. Like when they try to fight, like I give you the like bear hug, and like we both get like real hot and sweaty because you just like trying to wiggle out her, but he's trying to make it.

SPEAKER_02 41:02

I threw a Christmas tree out the window, so I went in.

SPEAKER_05 41:04

Okay, the Grinch.

SPEAKER_02 41:06

Stole it. Stole it. We ain't nobody fucking some. Matt can attest to that.

SPEAKER_05 41:11

Of what floor?

SPEAKER_02 41:12

I had it. I had my I had my I had a birthday cake thrown on me on my birthday.

SPEAKER_05 41:15

Damn. She waited until your birthday.

unknown 41:18

Yes.

SPEAKER_02 41:19

Two months ago, Chris.

SPEAKER_05 41:20

No, you was really the birthday.

SPEAKER_02 41:21

No, it was she, I forgot what happened. We was somewhere down, she threw me like a surprise party or something like that. But I didn't know. If it's a surprise party and I don't know about it, then I already got plans. It's my birthday. You know what I'm saying? I'm already making plans on my brother. We down South Philly, blah blah blah. And I guess it was a surprise. I didn't know. I didn't go. And she she she drove, put up on me on my block, and was like, you pussy, you supposed to be, but you know, y'all trigger words. And then had the cake in the passenger seat.

SPEAKER_05 41:46

I never threw a cake, but um I was arguing with a man in his car before, and like before the argument, he had like brought me wings and balloons and flowers. Don't throw the wings, and it was really like it was a really cute situation, and then we got into it, and I was like, bitch, and I took the balloons and I fucking let them go out the window.

SPEAKER_03 42:04

Damn, that's evil. And then I'll be able to get it. It's his fucking birthday.

SPEAKER_05 42:08

It wasn't his birthday. He let a balloon. He just got me the balloons and the flowers and the wings. He fucked up like he was wrong. So then we still arguing back and forth and we grabbing shit. So I grabbed the flowers, I throw them at him. Now I grabbed them, I throw them out the window. Bro, he took the wings and threw them out. I started hit yo. I would have been hot. I did not plan on throwing them fucking wings. Like, why would you like he opened it up? Flipped it over. Like it was so dramatic, bro. I was like, all right, Neil, like them not the flowers or the balloons. Like, those are my wings.

SPEAKER_02 42:38

See, we gotta act a different way. Cause that's like I'm saying, like, I was uh I was when I threw the Christmas tree out the window, I was so upset. But it was like, all right, I can't I can't touch her. Imagine the pedestrian.

SPEAKER_05 42:47

Somebody you got self-control, that's really good.

SPEAKER_02 42:50

Somebody is gonna this Christmas tree and these gifts is just like imagine somebody walking past and fucking Nah.

SPEAKER_05 42:59

You gotta know what bothers them.

SPEAKER_02 43:01

One day I'll tell that story on Patreon.

SPEAKER_03 43:03

So you sound too good at this.

SPEAKER_05 43:05

Unfortunately, I have too much experience.

SPEAKER_03 43:09

I can tell.

SPEAKER_02 43:11

But um, Thoughts of Prayers, the Ray J, and what we ever get the trans woman's name.

SPEAKER_05 43:17

I don't know. Thoughts of prayers. Shout out to the baddie.

SPEAKER_01 43:21

Thoughts and prayers.

SPEAKER_02 43:24

Sorry you went through that, or I'm not sorry you went through that. Okay, it's the best way to kind of be. Now to get into some boring shit. Let's talk about some music. We are halfway through the year. Not boring. I hate music though. Satire.

SPEAKER_05 43:36

I hate music.

SPEAKER_02 43:37

We are halfway through the year. I'm here to get y'all opinions on because I'm gonna talk about Rallo album that just dropped.

SPEAKER_03 43:43

I ain't listening to Rollo's. Rallo Rodriguez.

SPEAKER_00 43:46

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 43:46

I gotta listen to Rollo's shit.

SPEAKER_05 43:48

Bitch, who this fuck? Like, I'm not mad at him, but halfway through the year.

SPEAKER_02 43:54

I want to know y'all's opinion or who y'all feel like has been performing the best, who's having the best year musically thus far. Up until this point in the year.

SPEAKER_05 44:01

Drake.

SPEAKER_02 44:03

Easy answer.

SPEAKER_05 44:04

We all better see it. We might realize she ain't on shit because my bitch mana thought of ass is my little moody bitch family at the US. Oh my God. That's my shit.

SPEAKER_02 44:16

Besides Drake.

SPEAKER_05 44:17

I'm not like a OG like Drake girl though, but that's a good joint. I love future.

SPEAKER_03 44:21

Pluto dropped the nine. I ain't gonna lie, though.

SPEAKER_05 44:24

Oh, like so say dropping music this year, though. You think so?

SPEAKER_02 44:28

Future Chief Keefe, one brand for you.

SPEAKER_05 44:30

I give that. Everybody be like, you don't know Chief Keefe.

SPEAKER_02 44:34

No, you no, you definitely. The more I hear you explain things.

SPEAKER_03 44:37

Girls with big personalities usually got good taste in music.

SPEAKER_05 44:42

I do like RB and shit and rock. I love Pusha T. Nobody can ever change their fucking mind.

SPEAKER_00 44:46

And Dave E's?

SPEAKER_05 44:47

You like Putcha T? Um I don't really listen to Pusha T. I love Kanye Web. I've never oh, you know what? Like, let me choose my words. I love Paramour. Uh I like common, but I love it. Yeah, Dave, you know, I I I've been listening to Dave V's for a long time. I've been listening to Dave East since he dropped uh Mama Working, which was in what was that, 2016?

SPEAKER_02 45:06

I wouldn't know. I fuck with David's E with a do-word, don't you?

SPEAKER_03 45:10

Like what's wrong with that? I never heard a girl say she listened to Davies. I don't even listen to Davies.

SPEAKER_05 45:16

I watched Davies. I had a um, I used to like date this man and we first started bonding over Davies, which makes sense. Well, it's a thing, it's a thing for you.

SPEAKER_03 45:24

You was you was fucking with a nigga that listened to Davies.

SPEAKER_05 45:26

He listened to a lot of stuff, but like we, you know, he was like, he seen me posting Davies and was like, you listen to Davies?

SPEAKER_03 45:33

Yeah, the clear sneaker boy.

SPEAKER_05 45:34

He was just trying to connect. Niggas be like, niggas be like, oh, I see you like potato chips. Anything that I see you got shoes on today. I wear shoes. I too have a pair of shoes. But yeah, no, like I really damn. I feel like I I'm gonna just stop talking about Davies right now. I'm gonna stop talking about it. It's nothing wrong with you, y'all can give me cursed out. Come on, come on. Oh, yeah, noon again know about Davies. No, it's like, no, DVs is. Oh my god, y'all can make Davies.

SPEAKER_03 46:03

He don't make but it's just like a personality type for like the people that listen to Davies.

SPEAKER_05 46:09

I'm just trying, I was just What's the personality type for people who listen to Davies?

SPEAKER_03 46:13

Like niggas, niggas that's like No, I felt a Dave.

SPEAKER_02 46:16

That's my guy, though.

SPEAKER_03 46:17

How can I say this without like sounding rude? Like most niggas that listen to Davies like smoke a lot of gas. They prioritize straight, but they live like a bum. If that makes any sense. Like they priorities together, but like they go to work, they go do their shit, come home, okay, be in a room with their Dave East blessing, smoking their gas, like playing a video.

SPEAKER_05 46:38

Dave, if you listen to this, I think you make music for people who want to be progressive and care about getting money and leaving their old life behind. That's what I fucking think. Don't don't don't, I don't know what this man is talking about. I think it's good.

SPEAKER_03 46:53

Maybe I'm not well versed in his shit. I'm not well versed in this shit, so I'm not going to.

SPEAKER_05 46:58

And he also talks about women a lot. I've I it's certain songs where he kind of talks pretty, pretty well about women. Where's he from? Harlem.

SPEAKER_03 47:04

Um New York. He's from Harlem. So if you it's alright, so if you had Yo, I ain't saying nothing. Oh, you wanted to say you was from down north?

SPEAKER_05 47:12

No.

SPEAKER_03 47:12

Uh what?

SPEAKER_05 47:13

No, but he let me shut the fuck up. I don't know. I don't know nothing. I don't know anything. Just stop talking.

SPEAKER_02 47:18

Just stop talking.

SPEAKER_05 47:18

I'ma shut the fuck up, yo.

SPEAKER_03 47:20

Um, I'm not.

SPEAKER_05 47:23

I'm boy, come on.

SPEAKER_02 47:25

So Davies for you.

SPEAKER_05 47:27

Um Davies for me and what? Is who made good music this year? No, don't put that on me. Um, put the tea, push, push, push, clips, clips, darkest before dawn or something. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 47:41

Besides Drake, let's just not let's take Drake off because I'm gonna go. Give me somebody that you feel like, yo, this person had to talk about.

SPEAKER_05 47:46

I gotta look at like my actual music. Oh, can I go again? Go again.

SPEAKER_02 47:49

You never went the first time.

SPEAKER_05 47:50

Oh, yeah. Lotto. Okay. I like Lotto album. I love Lotto. Damn.

SPEAKER_02 47:55

The women's I was disappointed at this album.

SPEAKER_05 47:57

I'm not saying we got the same birthday, and I feel like uh May 23rd. Absolutely not.

SPEAKER_02 48:03

I made it up December.

SPEAKER_03 48:06

I ain't gonna lie, Tori Lane's slutty bass is my shit too.

SPEAKER_02 48:10

No, we can't see that on here.

SPEAKER_03 48:12

What the fuck?

SPEAKER_02 48:13

I'm fucking with you.

SPEAKER_03 48:16

Oh, you believe are you believe he shot Megan?

SPEAKER_05 48:20

Are you believing? I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't say that. Megan, I am always on here. I don't, I don't, I'm always nothing to do with none of that. I'm just making jokes. I'm always on your side, Megan. That's all I know. I'm always on your side. I don't know shit about that short nigga. Yeah, I don't want to know about nothing about the media. Babe, I'm always choosing black women every fucking time. I don't give a fuck. That nigga was wrong, and they say he didn't do it, but at the end of the day, that nigga was around and you a man, you learn weird shit. You should have been handling business and you let a woman get away.

SPEAKER_03 48:52

And nigga, that's so good. I don't care.

SPEAKER_05 48:54

In general, people have so many opinions on it. You were not there. You were not fucking there.

SPEAKER_03 48:59

All I'm saying is there was some good songs to listen to.

SPEAKER_05 49:01

What making a sign?

SPEAKER_03 49:03

It was good.

SPEAKER_05 49:03

Yes, Tori Lands. I'm gonna shut up because I know where to check the fucking part.

SPEAKER_02 49:10

Um, so you said Tori.

SPEAKER_05 49:11

You said And I love Rock Nation. I love Rognation. I was really, I was with them when I was in. I love Rognation. Trying to get by. Uh-huh. Okay, K. I'm here for the rock, fuck. And they asked me, they asked me, they asked me, they asked me. The rock is it.

SPEAKER_01 49:34

So Tory lanes for you. Uh, I don't know whoever said it. Okay, Little.

SPEAKER_05 49:39

Lotto album was really good.

SPEAKER_01 49:40

Um, the women switched on Lotto, though.

SPEAKER_05 49:42

I didn't like it. I'm gonna. You know why? I know I know why people didn't like it. I think people didn't like uh um Lotto's album because on her album she was talking a lot about love songs. It was her mini love songs. Every song was my nigga, and he does this and he's it was cool when y'all ain't know who he was.

SPEAKER_03 49:56

No, we always had a point.

SPEAKER_05 49:58

But what's I think I think she probably knows at this point I could have done this differently. But I feel like I'm gonna give her so much grace because she just had a baby, and your brain is like so chemically imbalanced, you don't know. No, I'm gonna give her grace. Okay. I'ma give I'ma give Lotto grace because um through the media we do have, especially in the black culture, we have a lot of conversations about fuck niggas, fuck bitches. We don't give a fuck, da da da. And there is a lot of black love around. I know her situation may be sticky. It is a very sticky situation. Some people think it's crazy. Depending on who you asked. It's not sticky, though.

SPEAKER_03 50:32

Depending on who you ask, it's really sticky to the people that's in their business, right?

SPEAKER_05 50:36

But either way, she did make an album expressing how much she loved how much love she had for a black man. Yeah, and I think that's very important. We need it, we need more duality. We have sexy red, who's you know, pop pussy, fuck that nigga, he's a bitch. And then we got Lotto talking about some girl, I'm not giving my coochie up my man proud because I don't fuck nobody. And it's like you may say there's, you know, too many birds on the ground, not enough in the sky. But if she is expressing her love for this black man with her black child in this way, I can't do nothing but accept it. I'm not mad at that. I just feel like people had that was Facebook deep. I'm not mad at that at all. Tumblr.

SPEAKER_02 51:13

We needed to balance off the trans uh talk with uh Ray J.

SPEAKER_06 51:16

That was black men here.

SPEAKER_02 51:19

Um, no, I I agree though.

SPEAKER_06 51:21

Shut the fuck up.

SPEAKER_02 51:22

Uh I I mean, I obviously I hear it through a different lens than y'all do as women. Like I'm listening to her album to see if I are this cool. I like this, like, but it's not like hitting me deep. You know what I'm saying? I do I do know enough that her last album, which what was that called?

SPEAKER_05 51:34

Shigani Iced tea.

SPEAKER_02 51:35

Yes, that's her classic album. Fire. That's her classic.

SPEAKER_05 51:37

I loved it. I think people just like people want what they want, and it's not necessarily what you're going through in life.

SPEAKER_02 51:42

Exactly.

SPEAKER_05 51:43

And people wanted you to top them.

SPEAKER_02 51:45

Exactly. So once you already listen to that and you are in your mind, you're thinking she's coming with another one of these, and then it's like, no. She had to give artists room too. Then now y'all getting, I love who I'm with right now.

SPEAKER_03 51:55

I think that girls are just so messy that because now she finally told her business, it's no more like suspense to her no more. Like, as much as people be like, oh, we been new, we been new, it don't matter. She never acknowledged it. Now she finally acknowledged it and it's a baby and it's her hanging out with his other baby mom and all of that. It's like, oh, we knew you was lying. We knew it was this, we knew it was that. So you feel like that's the difference. That's the difference. Yeah, because there was the whole excitement of like, is it true? Is it not true? The putting shit together and the blues clues and all that shit. Women love a good chase. Like they love to feel like they solve something. That's not necessarily now they feel like the crime is solved, is no more interesting.

SPEAKER_05 52:42

It was never a crime, we knew. No, we knew. And you know, we just wanted you to stay lotto, but I feel like she's gonna find herself back for a little bit. She's part of the more lotto shit. But right now, she needed to get that off her chest. And I'm I'm glad she chose what she wanted against what we wanted.

SPEAKER_02 53:00

Just the women, just the women, because it don't matter to us because we men. Um we do, but not in this case, what I'm about to ask. Her and Cardi shit. Right. They're back. Who do y'all feel like I want them to be friends again? Who do you feel like was right or wrong in that in that situation?

SPEAKER_05 53:14

I feel like Cardi. Yes. I feel like I feel like Cardi was wrong because the problem is when you're angry and you're saying things in the midst of it, you can be like, oh, I was just mad I said it. Well, you obviously been was thinking about it. But I feel like you're crazy. I don't know how much real friends they are. Because if I feel that way about my friend, I'm gonna be like, you as me a pussy, but you should have smacked the fuck out of her expediously. But maybe they didn't talk like that, and that was just the thought she had and didn't get to express to her, and it came out like that. Yeah. I fuck with how um Curdy handled it though. Curdy.

SPEAKER_02 53:51

She's supposed to be apologetic, she's supposed to be apologetic.

SPEAKER_05 53:52

And then she apologized publicly, which was so tough. I'm never mad at somebody making a mistake, but I'm always so um proud of people who are not afraid to put their pride to the side for their friends.

SPEAKER_02 54:02

Cause she was wrong. That's her acknowledging that she was wrong.

SPEAKER_05 54:04

I like that.

SPEAKER_02 54:05

But I also, like I said, I'm not a woman, but I'm also I also get where Lotto's coming from because it's like how do I write to what she think about me.

SPEAKER_05 54:11

Lotto has right here.

SPEAKER_02 54:12

Like, how we even get here to even us even having this, you know what I'm saying? This conflict, you how like how the fuck am I pussy?

SPEAKER_05 54:18

She ain't being judged by the world at that level, too. So it's like you got my credibility being fixed. Exactly. Just because I'm trying to forgive another woman and not beef. So like I get it. But they come from like different lives and different backgrounds. And this is a good example of what an apology should be. You should not be apologizing to expect somebody to be like, you're right, and think you and that, we're friends again. Make peace with yourself. You are apologizing because you were fucking wrong. It's up to the person whether they still want to be cool with you or how they want to react to it. But at the end of the day, Lotto, lotu, she's not wrong for being like, Yeah, I'm cool, like, girl, I don't give a fuck, my man could do that. And I'm not gonna lie, bitch. And I feel like she said something about Nikki, so it's like she's gonna say something about Tarty. Like, yeah. You agree?

SPEAKER_03 54:57

Fuck no. If I apologize, even if you faking it, act like you accept my apology. Because if not, I'm gonna feel like you plotting to get back.

SPEAKER_05 55:06

Alright, but you still not gonna push me for my birthday. She had Capricorn, though. We like we're we're gonna let you know what we on every time. Capricorn December 2.

SPEAKER_03 55:14

That's why that's why I'm gonna be.

SPEAKER_05 55:15

I thought we had the same birthday, and I totally understood why she did that because I'm standing on everything.

SPEAKER_03 55:18

That's why I respect cardiac. That's how she is.

SPEAKER_05 55:21

She's new, but I'm standing on everything I said.

SPEAKER_03 55:24

But if you not, but if we on that, just say that we on that, but I'ma apologize and let me know what it is after I apologize. I think don't get me to apologize and then try to play me 50, like no.

SPEAKER_05 55:35

She didn't say anything, so how did she try to play her?

SPEAKER_03 55:38

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05 55:40

She said it on her album.

SPEAKER_03 55:42

Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_02 55:43

That was that was a little that was that was a corny shot, too. But that lets me know that you it was light work though.

SPEAKER_05 55:48

I feel like she wanted to be cool possibly again because she didn't know.

SPEAKER_03 55:54

That you choosing business over the human thing. That's a Capricorn. Capitalizing off of the moment instead of having a real conversation. That's why I'm not mad at how Cardi played it. But Cardi did the same thing.

SPEAKER_05 56:05

It's okay. Cardi did the same thing to be, though. She waited till the album to say something weird. This to the sales.

SPEAKER_03 56:11

Yeah, but in her, but in her case, in her she's thinking like. Cardi case, she's the bigger, she's the bigger artist. In her Lotto case, she's she's quote unquote technically bigger, but they on the same level.

SPEAKER_02 56:23

Yeah, they're on the same level.

SPEAKER_03 56:24

They on the like you feel like.

SPEAKER_02 56:25

But that was that was that's thinking logically. It's like I'm not gonna say nothing. I know I'm gonna dress it on my album. Yeah, I said on my album, say come listen and buy the album.

SPEAKER_03 56:33

It did more for beer than it did for Cardi by Cardi even saying her name for real.

SPEAKER_02 56:37

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SPEAKER_05 57:11

Alright, so y'all know how like they was dissing each other, whatever. Who is somebody you would diss on a track?

SPEAKER_02 57:17

I'll diss a million people. I'm gonna shut up. I dissed.

SPEAKER_05 57:21

Have you ever dissed somebody, Mr. Rapper?

SPEAKER_03 57:23

My first song, that's how I started rapping. My first song was a diss song because a nigga was saying shit about me and I ain't rap. And he did. Who was it? Fuck that nigga. But uh he he got me here. I started making music because that nigga was rapping. So fucking.

SPEAKER_02 57:39

Uh bitches.

unknown 57:40

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 57:41

Anybody particular in particular? Don't say name. Ah or you just be talking in general.

SPEAKER_05 57:45

You don't wanna know something? Be careful what you say because I've made songs about things that hadn't happened to me, and they literally happen to the T. Like I'm a really storyteller when I write songs. And yes, you can manifest a if I can manifest as many things as I have through writing bullshit, I know I can manifest a fucking million dollars. Be careful what you say. I'm I mean it so seriously. I never this way. This some I just do this.

SPEAKER_02 58:11

I would just I just Wendy Williams. Damn Fantasia.

SPEAKER_05 58:16

Damn. What's wrong with that?

SPEAKER_03 58:18

All the people that blocked him on Twitter.

SPEAKER_02 58:19

Yeah, that's how I got blocked by it. Because I was I was just talking shit about everybody. So it comes. It happens. Uh I don't know. Me, Fantasia always had beef for whatever reason. I had uh seen my name on like neighborhood talking. Uh um Tika Sumter had like, I don't know if y'all know who Tika Sumter is, like, she's like an actress. Yeah. And just she had called me like uh a soulless loser or something like that. Oh shit. What'd you say that?

SPEAKER_05 58:43

First of all, my friend is not a loser. That's number one. She might have been a man in the little soulless time.

SPEAKER_02 58:49

I just was a big troll back in the day. That's how I made my name for for real. But I love all y'all the same. A lot of y'all met and and like when I got into like the industry and shit, so it's all good.

SPEAKER_05 58:59

People block what they don't want to see and be like, man.

SPEAKER_03 59:01

Do you block people?

SPEAKER_05 59:03

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 59:04

Like, what's like a actually no, I really like it.

SPEAKER_02 59:06

What's a block worthy like a block worthy like message or anything?

SPEAKER_05 59:10

Oh, I love this question. You you I you probably got a better answer than me. I hate when I've I've been podcasting for a little minute now. I hate when somebody is doing too much in a comment. Oh, we know. When somebody's too much comment saying something smart, anything that's like You blocked him? I didn't block that bitch ass nigga. Fuck he gonna do. He's a bitch. What he gonna do? He's not gonna do anything. But um, I hate when somebody is like being a little too disrespectful in the comments, and I'm like, mm-hmm that's weird, stop. And they keep going. Now I'm going to keep going. Oh, yeah. We were I was arguing on Instagram with this man because we just dropped a clip and he was like, Oh, is my talent outdoing yours to our guest? And bitch, that's my guest. Whatever couch, I don't give a fuck. Whatever couch I sit on, bitch, this is my couch, this is my shit. This is your shit too. But this is my couch, and this is my shit. So I'm responsible. Stop fucking, don't say shit weird. So I was like, Oh, this is weird, like you're being weird. And he was like, Oh, this don't got nothing to do with you. I said, Bitch, this is my shit. He told me so no, it's not. Um, y'all don't want to. He wanted a battle. And I said, and bitch, guess what?

SPEAKER_01 1:00:18

You're every time I checked, he was saying something back and forth.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:24

I'm not gonna stop. Like, I'm really the type of person, like, I've gone so far. I'm not gonna stop me either to screenshot somebody's picture and make it my lock screen, not my lock screen, making my um my profile picture. Like, I'm fucking petty on the internet.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:34

See, regular hate, I'm cool with. Just don't spam me. I'll if you spamming me, then I'll probably block you. But other than that, if you just say some weak shit, like I don't give a fuck. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:48

But like, no, I was like, you being weird. Like, what is this? Like, well, yeah, it's levels.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:53

That's the good thing. I mean, that's the thing that comes with the territory with collab post, though. You bringing different communities into one little but how you gonna tell me this is not your pod, bitch.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:03

I'm house. Bitch, yes, it is bitch. This might be a regular cousin with Meleca. Now what? He said that's his cousin, now what?

SPEAKER_03 1:01:10

I don't give a fuck. Now what if he now what if he trade on you for his cousin?

SPEAKER_05 1:01:14

I don't care.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:14

I never even looked. I just she said you delete his comment. And I said, alright. I just deleted it because I'm like, alright.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:21

I don't give a fuck if that was your fucking mama. Why I got that serious?

SPEAKER_02 1:01:24

But no, I met him before.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:25

Because he's ugly. That's why. Oh shit.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:27

I met him before. I I had did a pod we had a podcast with uh Amanda Seals and was that Rec Philly, recipes, not recipes, rec Philly.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:36

No, real shit, recipes right. But they're not they not they don't exist anymore.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:40

I think they they exist, just the space, they're not there anymore in a downside.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:47

I shot um my last my last photo shoot I did with uh my last co-host. The last one, the last photo shoot we shot was there. Wow. I went I went there a couple times. Yeah, that shit got um what's that shit? That shit is cursed. Oh, okay. Ruck was definitely fucking cursed.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:05

Why was it cursed? We I met Tom there. We wouldn't turn out right or something. You wouldn't be talking about it.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:13

I did a lot of shit there that I wasn't for about, but I ain't I ain't think of it like that. Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:17

Remember, yeah, but we was in there filming it, so I'm like, I turned red on you acting real devilish today. This is in my Aries bag today, yo. Telling you it's the hairbag.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:27

It's not even I just got a lot of shit going on, man. It's okay. It's okay. One pack of one pack on the page.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:31

Sit the cut, man. One pack on the pig.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:33

I'm that's that's that's turning her up. No real shit. Like, we wanna fight. Whenever I get in my bag, the nigga be like, you're not drinking anymore.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:42

Sit the cut, man, it'll all go away. Stop drinking.

SPEAKER_02 1:02:46

Well, as as we wind in the pod, I wanna get into one last thing on the pod. Um, real quick. I know y'all probably don't care about this, but it's imperative that we talk about things we typically wouldn't care about, but the general public may care about, our listeners. You know what I'm saying? Which is probably 96% men. Why, I don't know, but that's why we got y'all here. Right? Women support y'all right, y'all support women.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:05

And to love ladies, equal rights and rights. Black women specifically, every other woman, then black men, then everybody else. Do you believe in equal rights? What she said equal rights. Oh, men and women? No. I believe in y'all got too many rights. I'm a big thing. No, yeah, no, no, no, yeah, no. I believe in equal rights, but I believe in equal rights. I'm gonna shut the fuck up. No.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:25

You tell her, let me shut the fuck up.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:26

Take some of that shit back from niggas. Take a look at it. Men got too much. White men specifically have way too much. Like they got way too much leeway, way too much power. White men. I feel like white men were able to vote for so long before black women specifically. I think we should take on jersey. We should take away some of their time of voting. Wait, you messing it up.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:49

Uh yeah, because I had a I had a like for all the time they was able to had a conversation this week.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:53

And we was not, they should like. Oh, that's bad.

SPEAKER_02 1:03:56

That's not even discussion with a pie. Um I like white men.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:00

I like all people. We just met, we just met uh cool. Yeah. It just depends upon who you because it's like you can't even label it like that. I I get it, some white people be on that shit, but it's like it's some black people that's on that shit too. I think I think no matter, I think all white people have a certain level of prejudice just because of how society treats them. Um, but I am always going to be on the side of black people. Absolutely. I mean, as a black person, it's really hard not to be because it's so much against us. Like, it's so much against us to make us man. I think systematically, I have no choice but to be prejudiced. But the problem isn't prejudice, the problem is not recognizing it and doing better, which is what I'm actively doing.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:46

All right, so you walk into the street, you're like, damn, I'm going to Popeye's. You go to Popeye's. It's a white person that's homeless out on the left side. It's a black person homeless on the right side.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:57

Who getting the dollars?

SPEAKER_03 1:04:58

You go in there, you get your one, two, you get your shit, you got a dollar at left. Who is you giving your dollar to?

SPEAKER_05 1:05:04

The black person.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:05

The white, but hold on. The white person asked you first, held the door for you, boom. But the brother is the brother. You come out, who you giving your dollar to?

SPEAKER_05 1:05:15

I'm giving my dollar to the black person because once again, we as a people are set back so far systematically. I have no choice but to help them.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:26

So you're basically telling the white boy.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:28

White people have so much privilege, you are homeless with all of your privilege. There's no way you let that happen. That's how I feel when I see white homeless people like asking for change. Like, I get we all go through things, maybe they have a mental problem or something. The street. See, they prioritize is fucked up because you worry about feeding this dog and you need to go find a fucking job and shit. But it's like there's no reason. Because if I go in to get a job and you go in and get a job with me against some other white people, what's the odds of me getting a job versus you without me busting my ass to like prove how amazing I am? It'd be kind of hard this whole About that stuff when it comes to homeless people, too, because being homeless and getting all the documents you need to get a job is fucking hard. Like you can't get an ID unless you have your birth certificate and your social. And then you can get your social if you don't have a fucking ID.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:12

Especially when you got MJ not giving you their dollar.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:15

You need W can't get it. I'm a black woman. Don't ask me for my dollar. Ask a white man for his dollar. I'ma give you the advice for the free ski though. I learned a lot about like homeless people living in LA because they got like so much homeless people. And I realized that a lot of those people aren't just people who just didn't do what they were supposed to do. It's like people with mental health problems. Yeah. Majority. Yeah. The United States does not care about people they consider like degenerate. Yeah, so I try really not to judge like that. But I do totally understand. Like, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:46

Then we love everybody and we treat everybody the same. Respect, duality, all the good words.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:50

Because the way this economy is going, I'm one empty tank away from being out there with the niggas the way this shit.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:55

Exactly. It's funny you said that because most Americans are one miss paycheck away from being homeless, and most Americans do not have $2,000 in savings.

SPEAKER_02 1:07:05

We heard that cut water.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:09

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SPEAKER_03 1:07:10

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SPEAKER_05 1:07:20

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SPEAKER_00 1:07:25

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SPEAKER_03 1:07:25

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SPEAKER_05 1:07:41

If you want to sell your boy cooch, you can sell it, man. I'm not going to judge you.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:45

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:45

Throw that boy cat.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:47

I hate your lingo.

SPEAKER_02 1:07:48

Real quick. Real quick. I want to get into B Dot's list before we wrap the pod up real quick. Yeah, that dude.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:56

Um B Dot tripping. He put his personal shit. Like at this point, he just like listening to his shit that he worked out to.

SPEAKER_06 1:08:06

Like he's a good person.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:07

I want to know B Dot list. If y'all unfamiliar, again, live in the basement on the rock, B Dot does his list twice a year where he talks about the best rappers at the halfway point of the year and then the best rappers at the end of the year. So I just want to talk about his list real quick because we got to talk about some music before we get up out of here. I'll start from 10 to 1, and y'all can chime in on if people were placed or wherever. You know, if you have any issues where people are placed. Top 10 best rappers of 2026 so far. Based on skill, song, clash features, and presence. Alright? Number 10, Rick Ross.

SPEAKER_04 1:08:36

He dropped one song. Makes no sense.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:40

Alright. Number 9, currency. I'm not expecting y'all to know.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:43

I don't like currency. Currency. I don't like currency.

SPEAKER_03 1:08:48

I love the project, but I mean currency makes this list every year. I feel like the fault but six times a year. Not a lot of people drop music.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:56

And I try to get into currency. I try to get into currency. Um Larry June. Who the other nigga? Who is he?

SPEAKER_02 1:09:01

Larry June is fucking edge.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:02

Um Bodie James. I feel like currency, Larry June, Bodie James, they all like the same thing.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:09

Like he'll leave a voicemail.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:10

I fuck with Bodie James. I like I really like his song Um Brennan. That's really good.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:14

I feel like we just in a more of an aesthetic, aesthetic-based music. So like if you listen to Larry June and you going with a certain theme of like what about your day, like if you're working on a gym, he's cool as shit though.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:28

He's so cool.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:29

It'll go with that theme. But if you like listening to Larry June and get you turned up before the club, or like start start like, you know, Larry June will put niggas to sleep before the club? Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:40

That shit ass.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:41

That shit's a good one. But if you listen to him on a workout, though. Like if you run on a treadmill, you listen to it, he'll get you through some shit.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:48

I thought him and Dom Kennedy was the same nigga for forever.

unknown 1:09:50

Nah.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:51

I love Dom Kennedy.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:52

That nigga is ass, too.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:53

Got him going down.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:54

You know what I learned about myself? What? I'm really not a big fan of like West Coast music like that, yo.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:58

I'm not either. And I was there for a while and I said, This shit is ass.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:01

I'm really not a fan, yo.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:03

Where the dicky suits? Where the fuck is it?

SPEAKER_02 1:10:06

I love Nipsey, I like the game. So it's always, but game kind of don't really give you that West Coast.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:11

I like YG. But I'm not like him like that.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:14

I like YG. I do fuck with Y. I fuck with Y a lot. Maybe there's more. So I fuck with Y, Game, and Nipsey. For me, that's like it. Well, I niggas start.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:23

What about West Side Boogie?

SPEAKER_02 1:10:25

No.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:25

You know what? I used to really like him. I used to really like him back in the day.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:29

Every West Cool that they do that, like, I just can't get into it.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:31

They all got the same game.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:32

West Side Boogie raid like Sam. It's the same.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:35

He's very spab and listen to Vin Staples? Yes. I like Vince Staples. He's funny, but he's like a conscious rapper. And I'm not a conscious bitch all the time. Y'all like Nip? Everybody got like Nip.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:47

Alright, so give me like both of y'all give me like your give me three artists that you would listen to that describe your personality.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:57

God, this is a great question.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:58

Current?

SPEAKER_02 1:10:59

Aaliyah.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:59

It don't matter, just in general. Like you gotta describe yourself and three artists and describe your personality. Who would those three artists be?

SPEAKER_05 1:11:07

Cheeky, Paramore, Summer Walker.

SPEAKER_02 1:11:10

That's on brain package. That's on the news. That's one of those.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:13

I'm being honest and I'm not trying to think piece it.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:16

But that's why, but that's why it's sick because it's like that's that's a wide. You know, you say four. That's a wide range of wide range of emotions, though. When you just think about those artists, that's a wide range of emotions. So for you to be able to beanie many.

SPEAKER_02 1:11:32

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:33

What you got for us, MJ?

SPEAKER_05 1:11:34

Um re No, I would say Robbs Cartel. Okay. Rob Scartell, Sabrina Carpenter. I love her. I you do get that a little bit. Megan. Because I'm very fucking niggas get money. But when Megan in a relationship, she like, yo I love my man. She be like, I'ma fuck my man tonight real good. And I love him so much, but fuck all the other niggas. Like, that's what she's talking about.

SPEAKER_02 1:12:08

Because I love Drake for just his level of arrogance and his level of I'm better than all y'all niggas. So fuck all y'all. And I was a minority, y'all ain't niggas ain't gonna put me on. So I really appreciate him for that. Wayne, because that's who really like raised me in terms of like hip hop. But Wayne also gives like just uh alien in that space and Aaliyah.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:27

Aaliyah? I love Sabrina. That's the sensitive stuff coming out.

SPEAKER_02 1:12:30

Yeah, yeah, I love Aaliyah.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:32

Come rattle me. I'm in karate. Wait, Aaliyah? Aaliyah. Like Aaliyah, Aaliyah. Okay, okay, okay, okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:38

Shit, I'll go. Future. Petey Crack. Ali Golden.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:43

Ellie Golding. I could say. I give that, yeah. Yeah, I get that. The white girl, right? Yes. Like the song The Light. I had to make sure.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:53

Ellie Golden is like, oh like I love her. She makes the EDM.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:00

Song I love. Who to three?

SPEAKER_03 1:13:04

Number three? Oh, Drake.

SPEAKER_02 1:13:07

Got to.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:07

Got too. I can see that. I think that fits. Singing Ellie Golden's.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:11

Emotional like Drake, but I'm gonna show you future.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:13

What you like about Ellie Golden?

SPEAKER_03 1:13:16

Um, I just love the way her lyrics are like, she very like um in depth of like how like um her perspective on life. No, real shit.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:26

Like don't he trying to have a vulnerable moment. Don't do that to him.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:30

It's like she did the way, like, when if you listen to her music, like the way she describes her moments, and like lyrics, it's like it's phenomenal.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:38

A girl put you on?

SPEAKER_03 1:13:39

No. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:43

One of my favorite things about you is that like you ask Bang a question and it's just like his heart come out his chest and just break apart and be confetti. Yeah, for sure. He'd be like, here's my feelings. Like, here's all my feelings. Aries. He's an Aries. You know what's funny? That's an Aries man, I'm an Aries woman, and I feel like you can see like the difference.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:02

Yeah, for sure. I love Aries and Rash. You're an attack.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:08

I would have never guessed you as an Aries.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:09

I'm an attack. Yeah, you be an attack more sometimes.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:14

That's Aries behavior, though.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:16

But it's crazy though, because when you say that though, we take up the room like the same, we both is gonna fill up the room with the personality, but in two different ways. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:25

Do y'all do that thing where like y'all was like, oh, I fucking hate all Aries because my ex was an Aries and he cheated on me and he did blah blah blah. And then all Aries men is like, fuck you. Where's your son?

SPEAKER_03 1:14:34

I'm a Capricorn. Capricorn, that's December.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:39

Starting when the daughter Capricorn.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:41

I'm the first day. So I'm like a Sagicorn. It's the first day of a Capricorn, last day the Sag.

SPEAKER_00 1:14:45

Oh he a cat too.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:48

My grandma's birthday is December 2nd. So what is she?

SPEAKER_05 1:14:51

They gotta let me in? Capricorn? Okay. What's your birthday?

SPEAKER_03 1:14:55

Okay, okay, okay.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:56

Oh my god, that's my cousin's birthday. My favorite cousin in my whole life. Like, her name Michie. Michie died, I see. Um Michie, me and Michie are like, we tell we call we tell everybody like we're two halves of the same person. Like, we are literally the same soul. We like, we've we've been through so much together. Like that girl is a Capricorn, she's January 3rd. And it's so beautiful seeing like how Capricorns move. Y'all are so business minded, and y'all really don't care about people too much, but when y'all give a fuck, y'all give a fuck. Like, she's very possessive. She like, yeah, you what cousins? Like, what other people are? Crashing out by my every time.

SPEAKER_02 1:15:29

Okay. Can I can I finish the list so we can get out about her? Sorry, let me see. All good. Uh Rock Marciani at eight.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:36

Who that?

SPEAKER_02 1:15:37

We'll move along.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:39

Boxers or they can talk about it.

SPEAKER_03 1:15:40

No, Rock Marciani project was fire, but like I said, I feel like they got them spots because of not a lot of people dropped this shit.

SPEAKER_02 1:15:46

Nobody, yeah, nobody really dropped. Number seven, French Montana. Yeah, French is respectful. French is having a good year. I'm not can't can't knock that.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:54

It's on a BC Awards.

SPEAKER_02 1:15:56

I can't knock that. Number six was Juvenile.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:59

You know what?

SPEAKER_02 1:16:00

Because of his title. Juvie, do I love it? He dropped the project. No, he had the song with Megan the Stallion, right? You should know that. Oh, yeah. Yeah.

unknown 1:16:09

Oh, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:10

I forgot what go I can't think of the ring.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:12

So you need an old nigga. I liked it though. That was so freaky. Y'all have me thinking I needed an old nigga. Old freaky ass nigga. I think I need an old nigga. That's all the chat.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:23

That's why when Bang did this, he told me, Oh, that's triple X.

SPEAKER_03 1:16:26

Yeah, exactly. Mine and I've got it. Next question.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:28

We're gonna pack you one day. Uh number five, Kanye West. Love Kanye S. Kanye Drop Bully. Yeah, that's true. Officially.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:34

He's so creative. I did not listen to it.

SPEAKER_03 1:16:37

It shows and everything.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:38

And he's going crazy right now.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:40

He's an actual artist. You know these days people don't really be. I mean, he's been out though. So, okay.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:45

But still, he's reinventing himself every great shoemaker.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:47

He actually pushes the needle. I can't stand so many people out here not trying to.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:51

Number four, we got Freddie Gibbs. Freddie Gibbs on his list every year.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:53

Freddie Gibbs. The bunny bandit. Fuck no.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:57

Yes.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:58

The head slinging money lurk.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:00

No.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:01

Fuck no.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:01

Leave Freddie Gibbs where he at shit gets three.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:05

At three, we got J. Cole. Album was trash. Two trash. Tia. And one we got Drake.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:10

We disagree, bro. Love.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:12

Two six niggas wild year. I don't like uh that uh fall off. I ain't like it.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:18

What that shit was fire.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:19

I ain't like it. J.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:20

Cole. It was too much like too local shit. I didn't listen, I'm sorry. I like J. Cole.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:24

The Fayetteville shit. I couldn't just, you know.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:26

See, I I can't accept no.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:28

And my view, my view of J. Cole just different still because it's like I can't get over him like bowling out.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:34

I mean me either, but we're not gonna disrespect that that album.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:38

I love Cole, but I just this album I couldn't get into. For his album too for you.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:41

I mean, that's fair for your favorite artist. I talked about Lotto today, but I'm getting on her because she one of my favorite, like, rapper girls.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:49

So it's just like you expect more from her. Yeah, like but you disrespecting J. Cole, he out of pocket. Yeah, you trim it. Damn.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:59

There we go. Politically correct.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:00

So who's an artist y'all don't expect nothing from? Like y'all still like him. Majority of the industry. If y'all don't expect shit from them, like nothing good, nothing.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:08

I hate a lot of people, I'm not gonna lie.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:10

Yeah, me too. I don't hate no artists. No, you not hate. Not nobody you hate, but it's just like I just hate people though.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:15

Like I really like I'm trying to tell you to know me is to know like.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:18

You ever been to therapy?

SPEAKER_02 1:18:19

No. Yes, actually. I did couples therapy. I did all that.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:22

You did couples therapy? Couples therapy? Like, what's couples therapy?

SPEAKER_05 1:18:26

Like, I can't do couples therapy.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:28

I'm saying, like, what's couples therapy look like though?

SPEAKER_05 1:18:30

Was you and this person already like married, or was you and this person like dating when you didn't? No, we weren't married. You should you believe in therapy? Yeah, you believe in couples therapy before being married? Yes, that's when you're supposed to do it. That's amazing. I love that. Nobody believes me. Everybody's like, if you gotta go to therapy, y'all not married, like don't be together. But I think it's important to work with it. But it's like you can see your compatibility. I had a firewind for couples therapy because she was telling that nigga he was right, and I was like, you cannot. No, she was Caribbean, but she kept saying he was right. I was like, What you wanna fuck this nigga? Fuck. Well, his boy cooch.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:03

Ours was this like white lady that was like somewhere, and then I was like, Oh, you cool, you come out with you invited to my wedding.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:08

I can't have a therapist that's not black and not.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:10

You invite a therapist of the way?

SPEAKER_05 1:19:11

I didn't come, but it was she was cool.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:13

I fuck where I forgot her.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:14

I'm about to sign up for th for a couple's therapy because they don't know life through our lens, and that's just the reality.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:19

Why we can't just bond through trauma like we've been doing? Why we need therapy?

SPEAKER_05 1:19:24

Why would I want to bond through trauma? Like, what the fuck? If we bond through trauma, I don't want any more trauma. And then we and then we decide to conceive a child. Now our child is gonna live through our trauma. I'm not doing that.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:32

No, because we're not gonna have the trauma that we went through. The trauma brought us together, it's not gonna get past.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:39

You are living in the trauma is bad. All you're gonna be able to teach is trauma. You have to hear it. No, it's not, because I'm happy and you happy. You're not happy. You just happy that you found something. Misery love company. That's what you sound like. Damn. You just wanna be fucked up with somebody.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:54

What's wrong with that? That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:56

Gog it.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:58

Like, that's what marriage is. Agreeing to be unhappy together.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:03

No, marriage. That would never be my marriage. I would never agree to be unhappy. Don't get married. Don't get married.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:09

I'm getting married.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:11

You got a cat?

SPEAKER_03 1:20:12

No. You need one. I don't do pets.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:14

Definitely I want to say thank y'all for for showing up today. And hopefully we are here next week so that we're not under scrutiny for whatever it was said. I'm gonna start putting a disclaimer at the beginning of the pod, though, so that everybody's opinions and thoughts and views or satire and are of their own and also do not reflect anybody here, meaning me, because I had conversations this week with some people. Um, and that Malica Lee is Melica, I is aya, bang is bang.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:39

And this week is misogynist one, feminist zero.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:44

Uh, I'm not a feminist, I'm a womanist because I only care about black women's issues first. Okay, sister soldier.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:53

She tried to change the note we was ending on. Um, but I again appreciate y'all for coming through. Um see everybody here next week. Keep liking. Oh, this bang line. I ain't gonna jump in. Like, subscribe.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:04

Like, subscribe, and what is it? Subscribe, like, and share. There we go. Mother.

SPEAKER_02 1:21:08

There we go, there we go. And um, any positive message you want to send out to the people that's that's watching? Anything you can tell somebody right now that you want them to know? Let's end them like a better note.

SPEAKER_05 1:21:16

Um Honestly, a really good note for you guys is that if you are going against any of this shit I got going on, or you are an op or you're somebody that's not fucking with the program, your best bet is to get in the field. Because it's I'm finna leave a lot of space for y'all at the bottom. So you got all that space to do what you want to do. So that's my positive message. Um, you know, look look look for your next space. You got a lot going on, because we finna go up. So um don't go against the shit. My message would be um, whatever you're going through, give it to God and trust that he will handle it for real, for real. Just be like I'm giving it to you. And my other message would be celebrate yourself. You gotta celebrate your wins. There's enough hard shit going on in life. When you got something good going on, celebrate that just like you crashed out about the badge.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:03

Okay. Y'all too positive for me.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:05

Give it to God's while she left his house.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:07

Yeah, she like gave it to God and all that. That's for real.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:10

You don't know what people going through, man.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:12

You giving it to God. I wanted to tell niggas, fuck them niggas. We coming to take this shit.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:16

I mean, I give it to God, but then I do be like, fuck niggas get off my phone. Like, so what's up?

SPEAKER_03 1:22:21

Fuck them niggas and get off her phone, but you left it with God, so then I can't even give myself.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:26

Why she can't do both? Yeah, I wouldn't be negative giving the guy.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:29

Fuck them niggas, give them saying the world is on ours, like all that scarf.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:34

Oh, yeah, don't worry about him. God know your heart. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:38

And I just want to say, be intentional. Was that convincing enough? All right, be intentional.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:43

I'm gonna intentionally buy Bentley when this shit blew up.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:46

Be intentional. Love y'all. See y'all next week. We see y'all next week.

SPEAKER_06 1:22:52

Okay.